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General Platform Questions

Q: What is Split.fyi?

A: Split.fyi is a divorce support platform that provides emotional grounding, strategic guidance, and financial clarity — through community, coaching, education, and expert-led support.
We are not a law firm or therapy.
We help you navigate decisions, communication, and next steps so you can move through divorce in a grounded and self-honoring way.

A: No.
 Therapy supports emotional healing from past experiences.
 Split.fyi supports the immediate, practical, and emotional reality of divorce — where you need:

  • Tools to self-regulate

  • Clear communication strategies

  • Financial understanding

  • Guidance on “what to do next”

Many members combine Split.fyi + therapy for complete support.

A: No.
 We do not replace attorneys.
 We help you:

  • Get clear on your goals before legal conversations

  • Understand what questions to ask lawyers/mediators

  • Reduce unnecessary conflict (and legal fees)

  • Stay grounded and strategic

This clarity often saves members time, money, and stress.

A: Our core team includes:

  • Certified Divorce Coaches

  • Accredited Mediators

  • Communication & Co-Parenting Specialists

  • A Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA)

Members can submit financial questions and receive guidance during community financial Q&A sessions.

A: No.
 You are welcome to:

  • Speak

  • Listen quietly

  • Keep your camera off

  • Come and go as needed

This is support, not performance.

A: No.
 Members join while:

  • Considering divorce
  • Going through divorce
  • Rebuilding afterward

     

Where you are simply helps us guide you to the right level of support.

A: No.
If you can click a link and join Zoom, you’re all set — and we’ll help if needed.

Membership Questions (Growth & Thrive)

Q: What’s the difference between Growth and Thrive?

A:

Growth and Thrive include the same support and features.
 The only difference is length and pricing:

Plan

Length

Best For

Cost Advantage

Growth

6 months

Stabilizing + grounding

Higher monthly equivalent

Thrive

12 months

Rebuilding with continued support

Best value (lower monthly equivalent)

If you know this journey will take time, Thrive is the most cost-effective choice.

A: Growth is for someone who needs:

  • Emotional steadiness
  • Community support
  • Relief from feeling alone

Growth is your soft landing place.

A: Thrive is for the person who:

  • Wants support while rebuilding
  • Wants structure, direction, emotional support, and financial awareness over time

     

Thrive = long-term transformation with ongoing support.

A: 

  • Weekly Coffee Talk (Fridays)

  • Monthly Support Circles:

    • Moving On Circle
    • SOS Women’s Circle

  • Monthly Co-Parenting Support Group

  • Ability to submit questions to our CDFA (answered in group financial sessions)

  • Community Discussion & Peer Support Spaces

  • Access to the Resource + Masterclass Library

  • Optional accountability check-ins through group involvement

A: No — Growth and Thrive are group-based support.
If you want personal case-by-case guidance, Bootcamp is the right fit.

A: As much or as little as you need.
There is no homework.
Some members come weekly, some drop in as needed. Both are welcome.

A: You will gain:

  • Emotional steadiness
  • Tools to self-regulate
  • Language for co-parenting communication
  • Financial awareness
  • A grounded sense of “I am not alone and I can do this.”

Most members say:

“I finally feel like I can breathe again.”

A: Click Join the Community, choose your plan, and create your account.
 You will receive confirmation emails that walk you through onboarding and how to begin accessing support immediately.

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Growth → Thrive:
 Yes. You can upgrade to Thrive at any time.
 We prorate your membership, so you only pay the difference.

Growth/Thrive → Bootcamp:
 Yes. You can transition into Bootcamp whenever you feel ready.
 Bootcamp is a separate, private coaching program, so it is not prorated from membership.
 However — we’ll help you time your start date so you receive the most value and avoid overlapping support.

 

A: Memberships renew at the end of each term (6 or 12 months).
You can request cancellation before your renewal date.

Divorce Bootcamp Questions

Q: Who is Bootcamp for?

A: Bootcamp is for the person who is:

  • Emotionally, financially, or logistically overwhelmed
  • Trying to make big decisions under pressure
  • Needing hands-on, step-by-step guidance

Bootcamp gives you a team, a plan, and direction.

A: No.
Bootcamp supports your nervous system, communication, and decision-making in real time while staying grounded and strategic

A:

  • Monthly Private 1:1 Coaching Sessions (emotional support + communication strategy)

  • Weekly 90-minute Financial Strategy Sessions with a CDFA (custom to your case)

  • Full access to all Growth/Thrive community support groups + resource library

  • A structured Divorce Roadmap so you know what to do next

  • A completed Divorce Roadmap Binder outlining:

    • Your financial clarity

    • Your decisions and timelines

    • Your co-parenting and communication strategy

    • Your next chapter path

 

A: No.
Bootcamp is the organizing system.
Come exactly as you are.

A: You can enroll directly from the Join Page.
If you’d like to talk first, you can book a free consult — we’d be glad to walk through your situation with you.

Live Calls, Sessions & Webinars

Q: Are the webinars live or recorded?

A: Both.
 Many live sessions are recorded and added to the Resource Library for Thrive + Bootcamp members.

A: No.
 Attend live when you can.
 Watch replays when you need.
 There is no required schedule.

A: No.
Your presence is enough.
Silence is participation here.

Pricing & Payment

Q: Do you offer payment plans?

A: Yes.
If you need a payment plan for Bootcamp, just let us know in your free consult.
We always aim to make support accessible, not stressful.

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Most members say Split.fyi helped them:

  • Save thousands in unnecessary legal fees
  • Reduce emotional overwhelm and conflict
  • Make clearer decisions
  • Rebuild confidence and self-trust

Support is not a luxury — it’s protection for your peace, your future, and your wellbeing.