Frequently Asked Questions
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How Split.fyi Works
Q: What’s included in the Foundation Level?
A: Foundation Level includes Weekly Coffee Talks, access to community chats and forums, and moderated accountability chats where you can connect with others for support, share experiences, and get real-time insights.
Q: What makes Growth and Thrive Levels different?
A: Growth and Thrive Levels build on Foundation Level by adding exclusive workshops and webinars led by experts, access to premium tools and resources, direct access to professionals during office hours, specialized support groups, and personalized 1:1 coaching opportunities.
Q: How do I create my profile and access my membership?
A: After signing up for one of our Memberhips, you’ll receive an invitation from Coaching Split.fyi to access your membership and setup your profile.
Q: Can I switch from Foundation to Growth or Thrive Levels?
A: Absolutely! You can upgrade at any time to access the additional benefits of our Growth or Thrive Levels. When you upgrade you will receive a prorated credit for time remaining on your current subscription for your upgraded membership. This is true if you want to move from either a Foundation Level membership or a Growth Level membership.
Q: How do I cancel my membership?
A: You can cancel your Membership at anytime by going here.
You’ll still have access to your Membership until it expires.
Q: Can I downgrade my membership?
A: Yes, your current membership benefits will stay in effect until the end of your membership term and then the new membership will take effect.
Q: Are Split.fyi memberships worth the cost?
A: Yes! With Growth/Thrive Level, you gain access to resources and professional support valued at over $20,000 annually. Instead of spending more time and money on unnecessary stressors, Split.fyi helps you focus on what truly matters while saving you time, energy, and resources.
Q: What are Weekly Coffee Talks?
A: Coffee Talks are live group sessions held every Friday at 9 am PT. They’re a safe, supportive space to share your journey, get advice, and connect with others who truly understand what you’re going through.
Q: What is a “specialized support group”?
A: Specialized support groups are focused, expertly moderated sessions tailored to specific needs like co-parenting, transitioning to life post-divorce (“Moving On”), or connecting in an all-female environment for added comfort and relatability.
Q: How do office hours work?
A: Office hours are live sessions where you can ask questions and get direct advice from certified divorce financial analysts, divorce coaches, and other professionals. This access, valued at over $10,000 annually, is included in Growth Level membership.
Q: Do I need to be tech-savvy to use Split.fyi?
A: Not at all! Our platform is user-friendly and designed to be easy to navigate, even for those who aren’t tech-savvy. Plus, our support team is always available to help if you have any questions.
Q: Is Split.fyi only for people currently going through a divorce?
A: No! Split.fyi is for anyone navigating the challenges of divorce or separation—whether you’re contemplating a divorce, just starting out, deep in the process, or rebuilding your life afterward.
Q: Does Split.fyi offer legal advice?
A: No, we do not provide legal advice. However, we offer resources and access to certified divorce financial analysts and divorce coaches to guide you through the process with clarity and confidence. For legal matters, we recommend consulting a qualified attorney.
Divorce Process
Q: How do I stay calm and make good decisions during my divorce?
A: Divorce can feel overwhelming, but small steps can make a big difference. Focus on what you can control and make decisions one at a time. At Split.fyi, we help you save time by providing clear guidance and strategies to stay focused and confident, reducing costly mistakes.
Q: What’s the best way to communicate with my ex during the divorce?
A: Effective communication can save time, money, and stress. Our coaching helps you set boundaries, manage emotions, and focus on practical conversations, especially when co-parenting is involved.
Q: What are the different ways to get divorced, and how do I know what’s right for me?
A: Divorce isn’t one-size-fits-all. Here are the most common approaches:
- Mediation: A neutral third party helps you and your spouse negotiate terms, focusing on collaboration. It’s often less expensive and less adversarial than court.
- Collaborative Divorce: Each spouse works with their own attorney and a team of professionals to resolve issues without going to court. This approach promotes cooperation while addressing complex financial or emotional matters.
- Litigation: A traditional courtroom process where a judge makes decisions for you. It’s typically more costly, time-intensive, and adversarial, but necessary for high-conflict cases.
- DIY Divorce: Suitable for uncontested divorces with no major disagreements. You handle paperwork and decisions independently, saving money but requiring careful attention to legal details.
- Arbitration: A private process where an arbitrator acts like a judge, making legally binding decisions. It’s faster than litigation but still involves presenting your case.
- Unbundled Legal Services: Hire an attorney for specific tasks, such as reviewing documents or preparing for mediation, without full representation.
- Separation Agreements: For those not ready for divorce but needing clarity on finances, parenting, or living arrangements while separated.
Each option has its pros and cons, depending on factors like conflict levels, financial complexity, and your goals. At Split.fyi, we don’t provide legal advice, but we can help you explore these options, understand what they entail, and determine which approach might align best with your unique situation.
Q: How can I create a co-parenting plan that works for my family?
A: A solid co-parenting plan reduces conflict and saves time by preventing future misunderstandings. At Split.fyi, we help you design a plan that prioritizes your children’s needs while fostering stability and better communication between parents.
Q: How do I rebuild my finances after divorce?
A: Start by understanding your expenses, setting realistic financial goals, and planning for the future. Our financial experts help you save money by avoiding costly mistakes and creating a financial roadmap that works for your life.
Q: I feel so alone—how do I find support?
A: You’re not alone. Divorce can feel isolating, but Split.fyi connects you with a supportive community of people who understand your journey. By joining, you’ll gain connection, emotional support, and the reassurance that others have walked this path and thrived.
Q: How do I deal with the emotions that come with divorce?
A: It’s normal to feel overwhelmed by anger, sadness, fear, or even relief. Our resources and support groups help you process these emotions while gaining clarity and peace of mind, so you can move forward with confidence.
Q: What’s the benefit of joining Split.fyi instead of going through this alone?
A: Divorce is complex, but you don’t have to figure it out on your own—or rely solely on a lawyer for answers outside of legal issues. Split.fyi helps you save time with expert-led guidance, save money by avoiding costly missteps, and gain clarity with actionable strategies for co-parenting, finances, and emotional resilience. Plus, you’ll find connection and support from a community that truly understands what you’re going through.
