Overwhelmed. Hurting. Stuck.
Divorce is hard. But we can guide you through this next chapter.
At any stage, divorce leaves you stunned, frustrated, and unsure about the future. You want to do the right thing, but you don’t know where to start. You recognize that your life is about to undergo drastic changes, but you don’t know what it’s going to look like. You need someone you can trust, but you don’t know where to turn. We hear you, and we understand in a deeply personal way because we’ve been there too. That’s why we’re here—to offer rescue from the sense of being overwhelmed and confused, to provide the education and resources you need to divorce with confidence, and to give guidance as you navigate this new season of life.
– Letting go and moving on –
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There’s a special kind of support that comes from building camaraderie with people who can relate to your situation. This community provides you the chance to interact with peers who are also in the trenches of their divorce journey, as well as gain insight from others who are a few steps ahead. Community brings connection, support and empowerment as you take steps to build a better future for you and your family.
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Divorce is confusing and messy. We’ve been there. But coaching can make a real difference. A divorce coach becomes your strategic thinking partner, your trusted resource, and your support system. Together you can define priorities, set schedules, and take manageable steps toward your new future. With trustworthy professional help, the journey ahead becomes an exciting opportunity instead of a daunting challenge.
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Bring clarity to your vision for the future.
Divorce is one of the few life events that combines deep emotional pain with a formidable legal process. We’re here to guide you through the process and any non-legal decisions, as well as offer resources to help you overcome both emotional and practical challenges. So instead of relying solely on a divorce lawyer, you can embark on a divorce journey that brings fewer financial and emotional costs.
Our Story
We've been there, so we get it.
Founders Heather and Laila have lived through divorce themselves and understand it is a daunting and lonely experience. Now they’re on a mission to educate and support others before, during and after the divorce process. Split.fyi was created with the goal of helping others avoid mistakes and make the best decisions for themselves and their families. They are driven by the knowledge that being educated and finding safe connection and support are key for facing divorce’s challenges with strength and confidence.
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How we have helped others.
I felt like I finally had a plan after speaking to Laila. My family and friends have been supportive but they were as angry and as worried as I was, which in return kept me too worried to take the next steps I needed to make. With Laila's guidance and Split.fyi's community support I was able to gain clarity and create a direction that I was comfortable with.
VinceMade a Plan
Sometimes life takes some unexpected turns. Laila and splitfyi.com are a trusted beacon for navigating unfamiliar waters. She was able to discuss, recommend, and put me in touch with the necessary resources to give the most important thing: peace of mind.
RpinPeace of Mind
Navigating through the emotions of my divorce did not leave room for the practical side of my split. It took a lot of education, acceptance, and support to get through. They say, when one door closes another opens. With the Split.fyi community, and a divorce coach, many doors opened. I gained friends, accountability partners and support for life. I learned that it is a sign of strength to ask for help. It is easier to face the grief that comes with divorce having a village of support.
JulieSupported
Divorce can wear many faces, unfortunately, most of them are ugly, painful and super emotional. At times, I found making the simplest decisions so hard as I was depleted of rs • energy. I felt lonely during the process of splitting. My story with divorce has loads of silver linings though, one of them is Split.fyi's community of kindred and like- minded people who I now call my crew of people who have my back, support me and teach me something new all the time. Grateful for them.
JodieGrateful
As blessed as I am to be loved by my family and my friends, while going through my divorce, I was stuck, and I had to overcome feelings of fear and isolation. The Split.fyi community was there for me in my time of greatest need. Split.fyi is the supportive community I needed and they continue to provide me with knowledge, empowerment, and safety. I am so grateful for my divorce family.
BeatriceIn good company
I was lost when divorce came to me by surprise. It was a lonely period. Friends seemed afraid to get involved and I did not know where to turn for resources. A consultation with an attorney made me afraid of how to go forward. I met Heather and joined Split.fyi at the tail end of my divorce. Heather and Split.fyi have a brilliant way of breaking the process into steps and putting you back in control. I only wish I knew Split.fyi sooner!
AndrewUnderstanding
Being able to connect with other splitters in the community was ultimately life changing. I created deep friendships with other members and we all supported each other. It's a difficult time and we all get that. It's powerful.
AmandaThank You
Thank you! I’m very glad I’ve met you & Heather. Honestly I don’t know where I’d be without you two and coffee talk. I look forward to it every week. I’ve blocked CT out on my work calendar!
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If you’re facing legal/custody battles, a mental health crises, an urgent medical issue, serious emotional problems, including suicidal thoughts, please seek help from the appropriate professionals near you.
Suicide hotline: 1-800-273-5255
Crisis line: 1-800-356-5395
Crisis text line: Text ‘help’ to 741741
National Domestic Violence Hotline
National Coalition Against Domestic Violence (NCADV)